Being an orphan, poor and staying with step parents does not give you an opportunity to drop out of school, to get married and start a home, Or selling your body for money, you can suffer now bout tomorrow you will live like a king and queen after school.
Whom have you talked to, about your suffering, problems and worries? Schools are these days for free, use that chance and study, yes you may be suffering but remember you will be someone important after all that suffering when you become some one important in the country.
Before you drop out of school, before you sleep with women and men for money first ask your self these questions, won’t I get AIDS? ,Whom have I approached for help?, have I seen my religious leader he /she can help? , have I consulted my chairman so that He can speak to my parents? , have I gone for help from the police? Have I talked to my best friend?, have I told my teachers? If I leave school wont I die of poverty, who can change this situation and how? Have a clear mind and seek advice before you make a wrong decision that you will regret for the rest of your days
Take a test and know your status, HIV/AIDS test is free of charge.
If you are free from HIV/AIDS don’t go on telling every one that you are free because people can get Jealousy of you and plan to rape you, so you can keep it to your self
Know that AIDS has no cure, you should know that every minute you spend having sex with out a condom and with the person you have not tested with, you have 100% chances of getting the virus.
So no one should lie to you that He/ she is HIV/AIDS free even if He/ she has a card that says that he /she has tested a minute ago he /she might have forged that card , so do not let him/her sleep with you.
Any one may be fat or small, Rich or poor, educated or uneducated, young or old, white or black and healthy or unhealthy every one can get AIDS/HIV. You can never trust someone to be free from HIV/AIDS unless both of you have tested. Never ever sleep with any one unless you have not tested with and you should make sure that you are all HIV NEGATIVE OR USE A CONDOM
If you have tested Positive that is not the end of the world, you have more great chances of living up to 100 years if you don’t worry your self, love your self , forgive your self ,visit the doctor for medication, get better friends who will love you and respect your status, get your self into sports, talk to your religious leaders, eat well, have protected sex, be faithful, avoid stress and over drinking and take your medication as recommended by the doctors
WHAT DOES YOUR GIRL FRIEND/BOY FRIEND NEED FROM YOU?
ReplyDeleteIf someone says that not having sex after doing other kinds of fooling around will cause him or her physical pain, that's also a sign that that person is thinking only of himself or herself. If you feel that you should have sex because you're afraid of losing that person, it may be a good time to end the relationship.
Sex should be an expression of love — not something a person feels that he or she must do. If a boyfriend or girlfriend truly loves you, he or she won't push or pressure you to do something you don't believe in or aren't ready for yet.
Anyone who tries to pressure you into having sex by saying, "if you truly cared, you wouldn't say no," or "if you loved me, you'd show it by having sex" isn't really looking out for you and what matters most to you. They're looking to satisfy their own feelings and urges about sex.
As with almost every other major decision in life, you need to do what is right for you and not anyone else. If you think sex is a good idea because a boyfriend or girlfriend wants to begin a sexual relationship, think again.
Whatever the situation, it can place stress and strain on a relationship — you want to keep your boyfriend or girlfriend happy, but you don't want to compromise what you think is right.
FIGHT PEER PRESSURE AND THE MOVIE WILDNESS
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, some youth feel that they have to lose their virginity to keep up with their friends or to be accepted which is so bad in this generation to do things so that others can be pleased.Nobody wants to feel left out of things — it's natural to want to be liked and feel as if you're part of a group of friends.
It doesn't sound like it's all that complicated; maybe most of your friends have already had sex with their boyfriends or girlfriends and act like it isn't a big deal. But sex isn't something that's only physical; it's emotional, too. And because everyone's emotions are different, it's hard to rely on your friends' opinions to decide if it's the right time for you to have sex.
What matters to you is the most important thing, and your values may not match those of your friends.
That's Ok — it's what makes people special,unique and wonderful . Having sex to impress someone or to make your friends happy or feel like you have something in common with them won't make you feel very good about yourself in the long run.
True friends don't really care whether a person is a virgin , sick, poor or weak — they will respect your decisions, no matter what.
Even if your friends are Ok with your decision, it's easy to be misled by TV shows and movies into thinking that every teen in America is having sex.
Writers and producers may make a show or movie plot exciting by showing teens being sexually active, but these teens are actors, not real people with real concerns.
They don't have to worry about being ready for sex, how they will feel later on, or what might happen as a result. In other words, these TV and movie plots are stories, not real life. In real life, every teen can, and should, make his or her own decision.
LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES
ReplyDeleteJust because you had sex once doesn't mean you have to continue or say yes later on, no matter what anyone tells you. Making mistakes is not only human, it's a major part of being a teen — and you can learn from mistakes.