It may be hard for the Rural student to decide if he or she is going to perform abstinence especially if you have this peer pressure. Those things you see on TV or in the movies also affect your relationships, one can have a relationship without having sex by fighting pornography , making them selves busy in sports ,home activities , have good friends , engage them selves in church activities and study hard when they have a chance to study .
If Students have plans together with their boy friends and girlfriends not to have sex during the relationship, it’s should be the choice of both partners.
It’s your own choice and it should be respected. Being a virgin is not a requirement. Even though you’re no longer a virgin, you can still do abstinence. If you are sexually active, you can use condoms. However, abstinence is a 100 percent sure in order for a woman not to get pregnant.
Some students think that they are ready and prepared for sex because they’re still on wrong side of the word VIRGINITY, many think being a virgin will cause bareness and infertility among the boys, they think being a virgin is childish and bad and for the fools and due to peer pressure you find youth to have broken their virginities at an early age with a wrong people and having unprotected sex.
Many argue that using a condom is a sin and sex is not fun so many youth suggested according to our research that they don’t use condoms at all. Deep in the village many youth are shy to buy a condom, many have no money to buy one and other stubbornly believe Condoms are not safe and abstinence Program helps to educate them that Condoms are safe and professionally approved by experts .
The also give advice to the parents who find it hard to talk to their kids regarding sex, you can seek for the help of a doctor. The doctor can help you find an approach which you’re comfortable with in order for you to discuss this matter with your kids. They can also give you useful tips on how and what are the important points you need to elaborate during the discussion.
